It's been a slow learning process. But I have learned a lot over two decades.
I asked about marriage and have received some answers.
I asked about government foreign policy and received answers.
I asked about income taxes and sales taxes and received answers.
I asked about physical health and received answers.
I asked about many things. Most often up front I had people put their hands up to stop me from looking further. First it was friends and family. Saying that's just the way things are. Marriage fails because the man failed what what I was told. But not the answer I found.
Foreign policy the way the United States did it for 60 or more years, was just the way it had to be done. But I learned that was just another lie. Lies that got us into wars and got other nations to hate us.
Income tax I asked why we had to pay it. I was told it was just the way things had to be done. This was a lie. A lie told by a bloated and poorly managed government. A lie passed on by the so called highly educated. And then a lie further passed on by the every day man and woman.
I was told for decades about how we should do physical health. Only lift heavy weights and to be skinny eat only vegetables and starve yourself. This was another lie passed on by the system.
Our system will grab onto and sell us lies, that then we also pass along ourselves and then enforce on others.
Outside the box thinking and going to the core of the question and building it back out is what needs to be done with almost every facet of our lives.
Simplify everything we do. Stop thinking it has to be complicated. It only needs to be complicated for very specific things. But not everything.