I do believe our current culture encourages and also celebrates broken women.
Many of us possibly have heard how many women get into the porn industry. Generally it is them having a bad life. An abusive parent or parents. Generally a drug addiction comes into play. This leads to a bunch of other bad habits. If they don't die quickly it leads to habits that just are looking for attention. Which the porn industry provides plenty at a price.
But now we see this spread to things like Onlyfans. Where women believe they are empowering themselves. Often showing highly suggestive things for a price. But I have also seen a few videos where those same women say they hate the men they talk explicitly to.
But we now go another step down. Where young women, often still young teens, are feeling they are supposed to send explicit pictures to young men. All in hopes that some young men would like them.
But all of this does nothing for society. It actually tears it down. It encourages bad behaviors and only makes for bad relationships.
It's does nothing to help young men or older men to think of women of anything other than an object to play with. It makes women just the new shiny toy to be cast aside when it becomes too old and boring or a new toy comes along.
That society feeds off a strong trait that men like a visually pleasing woman. But also teaches men nothing.
It teaches men to always move on and not truly care for women. It teaches women that men are just easy cash and a easy way to be pampered for a short while.
It's a part of society that has pushed for abortions. So that women can still be promiscuous with no regrets. Not able to create those deeper human bonds with a new child. Also that she had no boundaries with a man. So one of them got bored and left.
It teaches both genders to have no self respect. To not set boundaries with themselves or with others. Which in turn teaches self hate.
It causes emotional damage and always encourages us to pass blame onto someone or anything else.
There are also many that celebrate it. Calling it "Women's empowerment" or even "Women's rights" many many parts of society have been corrupted by this virus.
Many are now coming out to fight against it. But this war will be a long one. It has destroyed much of our society.
We have both Males and Females walking away from each other. Both pointing fingers at the other. Both blaming the other. Blaming the other for not doing enough or demanding too much.
Both sides need to fix it. But we have to get the correct information to people.
We have to teach men to be good men. We have to teach women to be good women.
We have to stop using Sex as a marketing tool. A tool to get easy money and temporary pleasure.
We have to re-learn as a society on how to gain deeper emotional connections. Connections deeper than the surface levels we currently subscribe to. Deeper connections that make it so a lifelong relationship not only can happen, but allows both sides to thrive.
Deeper connections that will allow both when they intimately connect, not only be physical but also mentally and spiritually beneficial.
Their are couples that have that connection. They are the ones that should be praised and emulated. They are the ones we should learn from until it permeates society. That it becomes more natural. That those ways are how we raise our children.
It is then and only then, that humans can reach that next level of our evolution.
