Work is ment to provide you life and learning. Work is good for mankind. But hunting for more money is a form of evil.
Being rich is not a bad thing. But more how you got rich is where the bad possibly happens.
Did you give up on or neglect your family to get your riches? Do your kids have issues that you either had to push them away or spend thousands hoping to fix?
As a mom. Do your kids respect you and their father? Have you worked to make it easier on your husband to come home?. Does he want to come home, does he look forward to time with you and with his kids?
To women, especially those single and over 30. Do you feel lied to. Studies show most women get this push to have a career, but then get to 30 and realize they never started the family they now want so much.
Maybe you pushed away the great man in pursuit of your career.
We need men and women to better understand why a good husband and wife team is the best team. Its not about dominance or control. Its about team work, its about having that person you love to work with, spend time with, and grow with.
But that takes time. It takes intent. Its not 1, 4, or 7 years of marriage. Its constant focus over decades of marriage.
Its not bad for a wife to have a job. But the end goal should be for the family unit and not personal gain.
Basic example. The husband has a good job. He is paid well. But maybe a little extra money is needed to cover costs. This usually has to do with raising kids. But can cover many other things. This might mean the wife also takes a full time or part time job.
But the job is not the point. Its she is doing g something to help the team.
Its also not the point, if the husband has enough money, that she is just suppose to be a housewife. No, she is supposed to be working for the benefit of that marriage. That team. It can be she makes the home a place all want to come to. It could be that she creates a good social circle with those that live in the area.
Both husband and wife are suppose to create systems and support that benefits both in the relationship.
Its never about having the career. There are many ways to make a living.
But not all ways, especially distracted amd selfish society ways, to create a relationship.
Your kids will benefit from everything you do right as a couple. Its simple, learn to always show love each other. This comes from good and constant conversations. Intimacy multiple times a week. Going out with each other multiple times a month. Creating strong social circles with others that share those same values. Being stand up and quality members of your local area provides for you and your children.
Church is better than social media. Social media can be entertaining. But your social needs you can get from not just going to church, but building friendships with those there, is the original social media from before the internet. Its also still more effective than any other social setting.
You might come home socially tired from church. You leave social media depressed.
We as a society have started to break from all the things that created our strong nation. We are currently riding the coat tails of our ancestors. We are not building a great nation. We are actually slowly destroying it.
We need to be builders once again of this once great nation. That starts with strong relationships that turn into strong families, those strong families turn into strong neighborhoods, strong towns, strong cities, states and then a strong nation and hopefully a stronger, better world.
