Why weak mean and delusional women.

So during a conversation today I think I realized why so many women have become delusional and western men have become so weak. It comes down to 2 very basic traits. Men want to get laid. It's an important part of the reproductive cycle. Also in general its harder for a man to get a woman to want to have children with him. 

Women have to be more selective,  because if she get pregnant it is immediately 9 months. So she wants a man that will stick around with her and keep her safe and secure. 

So naturally women like to test men. They will say some crazy thoughts with the direct intent to test the guy. 

But guys especially if they are not the "Alpha" type are desperate and will agree with many things when desperate.  

What this has caused is a vicious cycle where women  keep asking crazier and crazier questions and keep getting validated. 

So now we have delusional women and desperate men. Both are given bad information by others or have been given bad advice. 

Women thinking they are a prize no matter what. 

Men validating them for a few minutes of fun. 

All continuous in the vicious cycle of dating which has become a crap shoot of how broken are both parties. 

A starting idea for a better society

This is more an idea for the super wealthy or highly capable. 

There are a lot of sad stories out there around the world where people have become destitute because of bad circumstances.

What if you set up a system where their debts would be immediately paid off. You would have an agreement where they would work for you(or someone you have an agreement with) for a very set but short period of time. Under 5 years. Also possibly free housing would be provided. During that time many things would be required. Some obvious things are not doing anything illegal. But also good things. They would be required to take financial classes approved of by you or your organization. 

Now the hard challenge is, this should not financially benefit you. You should not be making yourself rich off this. If anything you break even, so you can help even more people. 

Our world has become too much about income and people have been working to provide themselves a life they can never afford. 

Sometimes starting a buisness with big dreams and trying to go from 0 to 100 in less than a year. Having all the fancy stuff right at the start. 

We need to teach people that starting low and slowly upgrading when appropriate is the best way. 

A high tide lifts all boats. 

If this is done properly, we can get millions around the world out of bad debt and that would benefit everyone and create a better world. 

Are we lost?

I think most of us look at life and think, "There has to be more"

What if this is because Society has taught us the wrong lessons? Lessons that religion practiced properly teach us. Teach us how to have a life of meaning and growth. 

But instead we have been taught to work hard with no purpose or with little purpose. To only work for money or stuff that has little meaning to us sometimes even 6 months later. Stuff that now just cost us more every week, month or year. Stuff that we can easily live without.

We have convinced ourselves that we need this stuff. The bigger tv, the house too big for just us. The car that stretches us to work longer hours. The smartphone that we have to have on us all the time. 

But having more stuff has not made us happier. It has actually made us more miserable.  

Then on top of that, we notice we are depressed. So we go to therapist to help us heal. We go to them for decades just to survive life. More money down the drain jist to be happy. 

Those therapist generally tell you to focus on yourself and not others. When that advice needs to be on the other way around. You only find joy in life when you have connections with others. 

But now the world has told you a digital connection is all you need. But once again the world is wrong. You need people the physically be there with you. 

Then the world has pushed for you to enjoy being single. We see this in current dating where we are just as divided as men and women as we are as Democrats and Republicans.  Everyone is blaming the other side and not taking any blame on themselves. 

We listen to Society and we have become more depressed and more separated from others. Many of our friends we do not know personally. But only digitally.  We have become awkward socially which takes us away from religion gatherings. 

When we do go out, we are just looking for fun. To let our spirit release some of that pent up energy. Then we get into pointless relationships that one or both leave hurt. We leave regretting our decisions or questioning even the good ones. 

We have jobs we hate only to be a paycheck. The company we are with either does not have a vision or has a vision we do not believe in or do not support. 

We have allowed our government to manipulate and poorly manage currency where not only do we need to work longer hours. But also we have to have 2 people incomes to even survive this current society.  It has even got to the point where a 2 person income is not enough for the average couple.  

We have pushed women away for being mother's. We have lied to them that a career is what will give them meaning in life. When a career is a dead end for most women. Most career women once they hit early to mid 30s have a strong desire to leave the working world. But then you have the 1% of women that say they are happy and thar every woman should be happy. Just another lie society has told us. 

What we need is our society to move away from massive corporations and more into private ownership. That will hurt the stock market, but put the money into the middle classes hands. 

We need to stop attacking women with guilt trips, when they say they want to be a stay at home mother. Or even a mother that only wants to work part time. 

We need to teach and enable men to learn how to and have a desire to be a protector of his woman. To find a woman that fits his life. To be a Strong man both mentally and physically. To have a vision for his life and see further than 5 or 10 years. But looks to the very end of his life.  Not only about his career prospects.  But also long term family prospects. Learn how to keep his woman happy, but not to treat her like she is better than you or give her reason to look down on you. 

Women need to learn how to treat a man. Understand a man does not want the same attention you do or the attention you give your girlfriends.  Learn how to teach a man how to love you. Learn to clearly communicate your hopes and dreams in a relationship. Don't tell him your plans, work with him how you will schedule your plans. When he is actively involved in the decision making of your social life, he will be happier and you won't have to constantly remind him of what you planned for him. 

 Generally a woman is the imaginative side of a relationship when the man the structured. 

You both need your time to play and relax. Sometimes together sometimes separate..

We need to learn religious teachings. Even if you are not religious.  They have deep in them lessons learned throughout history. Sometimes more straight forward and some you will have to grow to understand. Even if you say you are a Athiest you still have a lot to learn. Religion is a much deeper topic than what even the most studied person could ever fully understand.  

These are just some starting things, to make the world a better place. We are learning something in life.  Even when you make a solid decision, learn to be open to other ideas. Not to change your decision,  but to get a better understanding.  

Rethinking how things are done.

20 years ago I started asking "why?".

 It's been a slow learning process. But I have learned a lot over two decades. 

I asked about marriage and have received some answers. 

I asked about government foreign policy and received answers. 

I asked about income taxes and sales taxes and received answers. 

I asked about physical health and received answers. 

I asked about many things. Most often up front I had people put their hands up to stop me from looking further. First it was friends and family. Saying that's just the way things are. Marriage fails because the man failed what what I was told. But not the answer I found. 

Foreign policy the way the United States did it for 60 or more years, was just the way it had to be done. But I learned that was just another lie. Lies that got us into wars and got other nations to hate us. 

Income tax I asked why we had to pay it. I was told it was just the way things had to be done.  This was a lie. A lie told by a bloated and poorly managed government.  A lie passed on by the so called highly educated. And then a lie further passed on by the every day man and woman. 

I was told for decades about how we should do physical health. Only lift heavy weights and to be skinny eat only vegetables and starve yourself.  This was another lie passed on by the system. 

Our system will grab onto and sell us lies, that then we also pass along ourselves and then enforce on others. 

Outside the box thinking and going to the core of the question and building it back out is what needs to be done with almost every facet of our lives. 

Simplify everything we do. Stop thinking it has to be complicated. It only needs to be complicated for very specific things. But not everything.  

Democrats are becoming a disease on the land.

At this point I really hate Democrats. I am tired of the lies. I am tired of the twisted information. I am tired of their poorly informed rants. I am tired of them telling us we need to tax people more. I am tired of them making crap medical system just so they can turn it over to government. I am tired of the unaliving babies because it would make them look fat or "they were not ready" I am tired of them giving money away to other countries whule we have people starving here. I am tired of them using government money to push their agenda. I am tired of then telling me I have to accept all their hair brain ideas. 

Why we need the middle class.

I am sure we have all seen someone post either something about the rich paying their fair share or that we need to raise the minimum wage.

Both those arguments are temporary fixes often tried and always cause more issues. 

What we need is to make it so the middle class thrives. 

Why? Middle class is a much more manageable goal. Still hard to do, but more people can accomplish it. 

Middle class is what makes an economy run and grow. It is where the majority of our money comes from. It's almost all the parts that makes the economy go. From roads being paved, buildings built, sewer lines, garbage and more all make this economy run. 

Yes we need rich people. Because they are generally the big thinkers. But they need the middle class to make their thoughts come to life. 

We will always have poor people. Bad decisions are always made and hard times always hit us. 

But focusing only on the rich and poor just gives us more of them. 

So we as a nation and a world need to focus on the middle class. The middle class will feed the poor and needy. The middle class will make the rich worthwhile visions come to life. The middle class will make the money flow. 

What this comes down to is money. Money needs to flow like a river. But unlike how it's been done, we don't need to create more money. We just need to make sure the flow of it is going in the directions we need.

 Sending too much to a dry spot will flood the area. Sending it too much to another area makes a lake. Both can often taint the water supply. But a lake properly managed creates a good flow. Properly hydrating an area before gives new areas potential to grow.

Middle class is a very fertile stream to river. Life thrives along them the best. 

Trump is the key to setting things right

The amount of delusional liberals on social media is crazy. 

Trump is not going after LGBT people. 

Trump would reject an abortion ban at the federal level. He wants that at the state level which is where it is now. 

He wants to provide options before abortion becomes the option. Which does include financial assistance.  

He wants the right person in the Job. Yes this mean women and men getting the job on merrit and not based off gender. He already has a woman as his chief of staff. Which is a first for the presidency.  

Now the unknowns are the tariffs. You have liberal Economists saying it's a failure. You have conservatives saying it will be very successful.  Only time will tell. 

But keeping with the same economic plan we have done for the past 60 years just means higher national debt for sure. The true test of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and thinking something will change. 

Trump along with Elon do want to go into Washington and slash departments drastically. It does not mean he wants to get rid of regulations. But to cut down the  red tape that has slowed real progress to a snails pace. This will also drastically cut wasteful spending and allow for us to finally start paying down the national debt.

Trump is not anti immigration.  He want to control the boarder and then reform the immigration system to make it more efficient and less costly. 

Also he wants to close the boarder because that will slow many things crossing the boarder. That is high for child and women abductions into slavery, it's drugs crossing the boarder, it's cartel members coming across to do some horrible unspeakable things. The secure boarder is for the safety and health of all people. 

As for health that is a key thing on why he teamed up with RFK. Our FDA has approved many foods and additives that have been banned in other nations. Our CDC has hidden it's connections to the multi billion dollar pharmaceutical companies that have killed more than tyrants of the past with it's failed medications and light slaps on the wrist. Those departments will be slashed and fixed under the Trump/RFK team. 

As for international relationships. Other nations and thier leaders are already preparing for Trump and his team. They know Trump will not roll over for them. But will force them to produce. Putin has already agreed to peace talks. And with Trump that peace will happen. You will see the Ukraine thrive over the next 4 years. You will see the relationships with Russia, China, and North Korean become less hostile.

As for the Middle East. Trump is not playing around and you will see things resolved there very quickly. As for what he will do exactly. That is part of his strength.  He is not going to tell anyone.  It will come as a shock to those that do not help lower the tensions in the middle east and will not end nicely for those that want to make things worse. 

But I said it back in the Bush and Obama years. We have been doing international relationships wrong for 40 years or more. Trump will do it differently and you will see the middle east thrive because of it. 

Trump learned a lot his first time around. He has also surrounded himself with a very strong team that he trusts to do what is best for the USA and it's people. Everyone will benefit the next 4 years.