The Past is always there

I had a realization yesterday of how much my divorce still bugs me. Not that I want to go back to that relationship. But about the betrayal and story that went with how that relationship ended. We both were not perfect in the relationship. Although it was her that left and was the one that asked for the divorce. 

I was angry for a long time. The feeling of betrayal consumed me. Many of the false stories passed along hurt. 

Over the years I have mostly moved on. But yesterday a coworker who didn't know I was divorced asked me how long ago it was. I was almost shocked to say that was just over a decade ago. 

Mostly I don't think of the relationship other than to say "I don't want that" with things. I learned alot about what I want and don't want in a relationship. I learned alot about what I want in a woman. 

But I was surprised yesterday that I still hold some kind of sad emotion for that relationship. Some anger for that relationship. 

It's something I still need to work on and move on from. Some more closure I need to work on. Not the "I don't care" mentality.  But getting to the point where it does not bring up negative emotions.  

I usually don't talk about it. Or I can just joke a little about it. More light hearted stuff. I can even often generically analyze it, to say I like or don't like that kind of thing.

But sadly I still have some personal triggers from it. Triggers I need to fix or get help fixing. 

Intelligent women problems

So this might upset some. But just a thought on this topic. 

I have seen and heard many studies that in general women with high IQs have a hard time finding someone to marry. 

Also typical psychology men marry even to down on a hierarchy when women like to marry equal to up in that hierarchy.  

So does it come to the point where women with high IQs are not decent enough people to be able to see the great qualities in a man with a lower IQ than her. Is she so stuck in her ego that she cannot and is unwilling to look down with love. 

So say she is earning a good 6 or even 7 figure salary. Does she really want a man earning a 7 or 8 figure salary? Well that is slim pickings in any place. 

Where a man at a 6 or 7 figure salary is more than willing to marry a women with a 5 figure salary or even a salary at all. 

So when I see women complaining about men on line. Saying they know so much about men. But then complain they are single. Well those women are the problem. They are the ego driven individuals. They are the ones, that even though they might have a high IQ, are lacking. 

So when I see the ego driven women pushing their ego driven agendas online I just move along as they need to be humbled by life, before they can be worth a man having them around. 

The possibility of a Crisis

There have many people talking about how a few countries are moving or considering moving to the Chinese Yuan be their standard over the American Dollar. 

But I am not going to go over the crisis as per the American dollar, but what comes after the fall and the effect on the people. 

This is a topic that has been lightly talked about for the past decade if not much much longer. 

When Venezuelas system crashed in 2014. We had our politicians calling about how socialism didn't work and that is what crashed Venezuela. We even had Bernie sanders say Bread lines should be normal in America.  This is important as this is the step we might be all doing very soon. 

Gone are the days of American dominance on the world stage. We have our own children starving in the streets while the political elite talk alot about making changes they never will make that change for. 

This is what has lead us into this scare, and if it hits, it will be a very sudden crash of our whole system. So to be prepared what should we do now?

Food Storage

We all should be striving for 6 months to 1 year of Food storage. All your basic necessities. Things like water, flower, sugar, vegetables and fruits.  Things that can last for a while and keep you from starving.  Keep yourself from the bread line. 

Medical kits

This is something you should have now anyway. But it is a good time to make sure it is fully stocked up. Make sure many of your basic needs are there. Maybe even a needle and thread for stitches in an emergency.  Don't expect the hospital to be able to help you. 

Gas or an Energy for Vehicles

Just like food Storage. It might be good to have some fuel storage. This is either going to be in a container or if EVs. It's a way to make power, like Solar panels. 

Now here is the reality. China has been buying up land in America for decades. China is not a friend of America, they have worked with us and often behind our backs to ultimately undermine us. 

They have allowed many of their youth come here for University educations. They knew many of them might stay here. But also many would go back to China.  

China has also been stealing our technology for decades. Slowly building up their factories with very cheap labor. The Chinese government does not are about people. 

Now China is looking to be a dominant force in the currency markets. They have already made deals with Russia, Brazil Saudi Arabia and now France. Possibly even more I am not aware of. 

China's goal is to Overthrow American dominance. They have used our own selfish egos against us and will tear us apart from within.  

Our own politicians are feeding into this and have done nothing and will continue to nothing. They make us worry about race, sexual orientation, Gender differences just to get elected for another 2, 4 or 6 years. 

We pay with our tax dollars for our own demise.  

So unless the Politicians get off their asses now! We the American people will become the next Venezuela. 

Electronic Vehicles and the social construct

   I often hear that EVs aka Electronic Vehicles are suppose to save us from the Climate Crisis.

   But honestly I think that the "Climate Crisis" is just a political weapon used by both sides to scare people into voting for them. 

   Yes, we as humans should take better care of the world we live on. But the Climate Crisis has just been a talking point with an ever moving deadline and ever changing standards. 

   What EVs are going to be best for is resource management. We will still be drilling for oil as we are massively be dependent on it. But EVs will allow us to hopefully spread those needs out to other possible places. 

   The main thing about Evs is the battery. The battery is also the most toxic thing on the vehicle and where the most improvements are being and need to be made. 

   The science behind batteries has currently gone into hyperactive. With possible solutions to not only the toxic levels of the batteries but also the longevity of the battery and also the structure of the battery for many possible benefits. 

   With some of this new battery technology you will see it benefit your every day object's like phones or laptops. How would you like your phones battery to last 8x longer? Or how about a power hungry laptop. Having that 8x battery time. But also faster charging and less heat coming from the battery during heavy CPU and GPU usage times. 

   All those updates are being worked on. Science is moving along faster than before. The sudden need for more and more batteries has brought up many things and we are working on technology to make it better. 

   It is only with both fuel and electric that we will go into a much better future. Not one or the other. 

What did Trump do?

Russle Brand recently did video on the Trump with Pierce Morgan interview. Russle Brand Video link In the Video Russle asked what did Trump do? Here is the best eye in the sky reply I can currently make on here. 

What did Trump do? He made life better for many at all levels in the United States and exposed how corrupt our political system and very much how corrupt the Democrat party is. 

I see Trump as always selling himself. As Grant Cardone has said. Sell or be sold. Trump is always selling himself. He over sells himself often, which is off-putting for some people. But also I do not see Trump as a liar. But often he will speak with little information or understanding of a topic. But ultimately when Trump took action, he had taken a lot of information and made the best decision possible with what was given to him. 

We did not have any new wars under Trump. The world was actually more at peace. Russia was standing down. North Korea was standing down. Yes there were little battles of words. But no blood was shed during those times. Yes there were still wars around the world, but our involvement in them was consistently going down. 

But Trumps goal was not to make the world better. His goal was to make America better and encourage other world leaders to fight for their people and not against them. This benefitted Canada and Mexico primarily. But also many other world leaders started taking care of their people like they should, and not being dependent on the U.S.A. With that gas prices were dropping. When gas prices drop the cost of everything goes down. Unemployment in all areas was going down.

The Stock market and American Economy was strong. What a strong Stock market means for most people is a Healthy 401K which leads to comfortable retirement. If you work for an employer you should be putting the minimum into a 401k. If you are self employed, You can have your own investments either in your company or in the stock market. Either way the economy under Trump was good for everyone that was willing to work.

Many medical costs were dropping, illegal crossings at the boarder were down. Where most people think someone crossing the boarder is trying to get a better life. What the majority of it is actually slave and sex trade. Running Drugs and guns across the boarder and a lot of murders. The Southern Boarder of the United States with Mexico is not a place where good things consistently happen. So with Trumps strong stance on the Boarder, many lives were saved.

The biggest issue was 2020. It was an election year, so BLM made this once every 4 years showing. We had Covid and all the censorship that went along with that. All Democrat propaganda and agenda.

 Democrats needed the American economy to crash to get back in power. They needed chaos to replace Trump and the lies about Russia gate and the boarder were not working. So Election came into play. They had Fauci in play for Covid feeding his already inflated ego and got him to stand against Trump. They censored information and passed on false information. Used thier anger tactics and got Trump kicked off Twitter. They riled up their base. They weponized BLM and made a bad situation 100x worse. There are many stories that can be told on screw ups with Covid. But the real bad stories are the corruption ones that happened during Covid. Individuals like former Governor  Cuomo who misappropriated funds, works with his brother and others at CNN to cover it up. He was backed by the DNC all because he stood up to Trump about Covid. But Cuomo was making many bad decisions in his stance against Trump. The most well known is him ordering to lock Covid patients in an retirement with home with the healthy tenants. But there are more stories like this. There are more individuals like Cuomo that are still in positions of power. This is how corrupt our system is. 

That corrupt system got Biden elected and now we are back at high gas prices. New wars are starting again. Russia is not standing down, China is standing with Russia and North Korea will be next to cause an issue.  

What did Trump do? He made the good American lives better and the corrupt ones worse. 

Now they are punishing us for Electing Trump. 

Restructure American Buisnesses from within

As we are going through a time where many people are choosing not to go back to work. I think it is a time for everyone to stop and think how we look at work and the corporate world. 

Over the decades, America's strong middle class has dwindled. Our money does not have the same buying power that it once did. The Rich have become richer and the poor, poorer. 

Young 20 somethings are more often choosing to live with roommates to lower housing costs. 

Many of the good things America was able to do 60 years ago, have been going away. 

Capitalism was at a point the great equalizer.  Where a person lacking money but had great ideas and a drive to do it, could more easily make a great life for themselves.  Capitalism helped bring the world out of severe poverty. Capitalism made many people's lives better. 

What happened? Washington D.C. happened. Taxes, Paperwork, Laws passed, shadey deals. Good intentions and bad intentions have paved a road in the wrong direction.  

One example I heard happened a long time ago. During Kennedys presidency the American people were excited about going into space. Going to the moon happened during that time. There were many people looking at all the technology of going into space. But Kennedys Vice president Lindon Johnson did not like the Idea of going into space. After Kennedy was tragically shot and killed, Johnson knowing he could not shut down Spaceflight as the public loved the idea of it. He then pushed lots and lots of paperwork. Form after form had to be filled out. This drastically raised the cost and time needed to make any new technology with the Stars in mind. With this one tactic he actively had space flight killed off. 

How does that play into today? Red tape is just one thing we have trapped ourselves into. Constant paperwork, that I am sure many of us wonder why. 

Also one thing that is starting to change is the "Customer is always Right" company mindset. Which has caused many an employee to get treated very poorly by both clients and bosses. Also mindsets like a person in a job position is just easily replaced. This has made many an employee feel undervalued and easily replaceable.  

Company structure is also an issue. Often we just have a company oligarchy that takes most of the profits and makes all of the choices. Often under the guise of asking for ideas, but usually basterdizing the original idea and not even getting the main spirit of the idea.

We have been stuck on getting better efficiency.  We create artificial deadlines that are easily moved, but pushed if someone high enough in the power structure wants it moved. But the lower end people never have a voice in the deadline. They are just told to a accept it. 

Money over time. This is something many on both sides have made mistakes on. We have sold our most valuable and non replinishable commodity of "time" for a miniscule amount of money. We brag about working for 50 hours or more rather than what we built, designed or created. We have lost pride in our work and have often just gone into bragging on time spent. 

Extremes are bad.

I have always said extremes are bad for society.  Internet is great, but now many including myself can be addicted. 
It is good to have a budget. But to be so strict, you will never have a way to enjoy life and those around you.
Having a political standing is a good thing. But to think everyone should think the same as you is wrong, and going deeper and deeper into your political beliefs is just a bad plan.

Being religious and wanting to be a better person is a great goal. This can be wonderful for you and those around you. But as a religious person you have to fight the urge to judge both yourself and others. You have to fight the urge to expect others to be at the same type of life you live.

Wanting life to be easier and wanting to be accepted can be a good thing. But when you tell people others they are rude and wrong because they do not agree with your selfish desires. That is your issue and not thiers.

This world is not meant for your selfish desires.
This world is meant for us to improve the life of our children. 
When all you care about is if you get to love who you want or that you get to sleep with whom every you want. You are being selfish and only making this world worse.